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Mystik Spiral
Survival Scholar

Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Posts: 1490 Location: Green Bay, WI |
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When internet dating first started up people were very sceptical, and many people thought it was only for losers. Now that it's been around for a while I think many people changed their minds. I want to see what your opinions are on it.
I'm pretty sure my brother met his girlfriend on the internet, they're probably going to get married sometime. I didn't go through an internet dating service, but I fell in love with someone I met online. My cousin was an exchange student in France, and became friends with her, and when he came back to the US I started talking to her. We've known each other for a while, and I can't imagine somebody more perfect than she. 
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| Mon May 26, 2008 3:53 pm |
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Brian
Equador Jungle Survivor

Joined: 02 Jun 2007 Posts: 670 Location: Spencerport, New York |
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I am not a big fan of the internet dating, I guess I am just too old fashioned. Something about in person being with the person from when you first meet on...I can't explain it really, just prefer the old fashion way. But more power to you if you find love by any means available to you 
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| Mon May 26, 2008 6:10 pm |
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Dobry
Kalahari Desert Survivor

Joined: 30 Sep 2006 Posts: 511 Location: Kansas/Missouri/Arkansas |
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Welllll... true confessions, I met Sarah thru Eharmony, and we've been together for awhile now. My own opinion is that at least that service is for real, with psych profiling, matching, and many levels of communication/safety before you can actually meet someone. For what it's worth, Sarah is the closest I've met to a "soulmate", ex-wife included.
In this day and age I think it's sometimes pretty difficult to meet nice (and sane) people thru old-fashioned ways. And, especially with psych and personality matching, using a reputable service can be a very good thing, rather than the expensive hit-or-miss of the old dating scene.
My .02 worth.

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| Tue May 27, 2008 6:15 am |
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TrooperMax
Site Admin

Joined: 21 Sep 2006 Posts: 3502 Location: Orleans, Ontario, Canada |
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I see nothing wrong with internet dating, seems to be working for lot of people these days.
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| Tue May 27, 2008 7:18 am |
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Stephanie
Moderator

Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 634 Location: Ottawa, Ontario |
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I'm all for it. I met my husband online, not a dating service but another message board I'm on. OK, so we first met in person at a big get together for the board, but as he lived in Canada and me in the States, we did the long distance thing and emails/chatting went a long way. I have met and dated other men that I met online too though.
I think once you get past a certain age, it's hard to meet people. Unless you're out bar hopping and as if that's a great place to meet anyone decent once the beer goggles come off.
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| Tue May 27, 2008 11:08 am |
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Drummer Dave
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Joined: 22 Sep 2006 Posts: 4399 Location: B.C West Coast, Canada |
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God, no more of that Bar hoping crap, lol. Dead end there.
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| Tue May 27, 2008 11:59 am |
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Mystik Spiral
Survival Scholar

Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Posts: 1490 Location: Green Bay, WI |
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Good to hear your opinions. Hmmm... there's mainly good imput that you guys wrote, but 4 to 2 say you wouldn't internet date. 
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| Tue May 27, 2008 12:31 pm |
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LaraCroft
Kalahari Desert Survivor

Joined: 16 Apr 2008 Posts: 587
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Internet dating are you talking about a dating service or meeting online? i've had friends that met people online and have dated one even got married. My opinion, I have no problem with it. 
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| Tue May 27, 2008 3:21 pm |
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linsleyk
Cook Islands Survivor

Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 1396 Location: Washington |
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I wouldn't just because you don't know the other person on the other end. and I am in a very happy relationship. 
_________________ I just heard something big crack�.. holy crap!-Les Stroud
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| Tue May 27, 2008 4:25 pm |
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Doug
Equador Jungle Survivor

Joined: 22 Sep 2006 Posts: 688
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Well ive never personally used the internet for dating, and i prefer doing it in person but i dont think there is anything wrong with it, and i do belive it is a good way to meet someone that you are well suited to.
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| Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:20 pm |
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Survivor Kid 909
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1837 Location: Iowa |
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I see nothing wrong with it, its just not for me. I have to have known the person for a decent amount of time, and be able to be around them if I'm going to consider it.
_________________ -Thou may'st break, but shalt not bend me.
-Idleness brings want
To work today is to eat tomorrow
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| Sat Jun 07, 2008 12:58 pm |
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sh4d0wm4573ri7
Sonoran Desert Survivor

Joined: 11 Jun 2008 Posts: 143 Location: Kingsport TN |
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I see it as another option can be wrong can be right depends , truth be told my present wife of 6 yrs now I met on Yahoo in a chat room lol no lie
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| Wed Aug 13, 2008 5:15 am |
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TrooperMax
Site Admin

Joined: 21 Sep 2006 Posts: 3502 Location: Orleans, Ontario, Canada |
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nothing wrong with that, thats pretty cool
_________________ "There dosen't look like there's much shelter over in those mountains, but that's the only choice I got right now, this is gonna be a long week" - Les Stroud Arctic |
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| Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:51 am |
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survivorman_survive
Sonoran Desert Survivor
Joined: 27 Sep 2006 Posts: 124
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yeah my aunt is engaged to a guy serving in afghanistan she met on yahoo.
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| Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:28 pm |
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Mystik Spiral
Survival Scholar

Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Posts: 1490 Location: Green Bay, WI |
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I no longer talk to the girl I was "dating" on the internet. In some ways you can know the other person really good, but some things you wont find out for a while on the internet. I do like flirting in person better. It just feels right, and it's exciting. 
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| Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:31 pm |
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Stephanie
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Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 634 Location: Ottawa, Ontario |
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It's certainly not easy, that's for sure.
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